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Corvus_Manufaktura t1_iy2libs wrote

Isn't it strange how there's only ONE commenter pointing out how fucked up it is that OP took two other people on an almost suicide run in his car?

That's... Fucked up. That's more fucked up what either of his "friends" did to him. Cheating is pretty messed up, lying to your best friend is pretty messed up but taking two people hostage and putting them in mortal danger because one cheated on you with the other is SO MUCH WORSE.

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throwawayfae112 t1_iy2qqk0 wrote

Agree. Everyone in this story is an overdramatic nutcase.

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Corvus_Manufaktura t1_iy2s8l1 wrote

What's alarming to me is that a lot of the commenters don't believe OP's behavior is disproportionate. I mean, his story might be true or it might be a karma farm (though it's more likely that it's true), the commenters most likely mean what they say.

Makes me think a lot more people (than I initially believed) are just one cheating incident away from snapping and murdering their SO before taking themselves out. Not that I condone cheating, I think it's one of the vilest things one can do to a partner and it's way too common (and even normal in some circles) for how horrible it is but let's not pretend getting this worked up over a failed relationship is how a mentally healthy human reacts.

OP needs serious therapy for some underlying issues that were merely triggered by this incident and based on this glimpse into his mind, I wouldn't be surprised if he was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder or something similar.

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avtogol t1_iy31k5t wrote

Thanks. Straight forward common-sense comments like this one often restore my faith in humanity after going through so much crap that people write.

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gonza212 t1_iy32nyb wrote

If he wanted to have crashed, he would have, what he put in the text is what/how he was feeling at the time, it is normal to feel in extreme ways when you are this sad and you feel that the world is going down, the important thing is that he don't do thar(sorry for my english, i'm good in text comprensión but no writing)

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Corvus_Manufaktura t1_iy333i7 wrote

He didn't just feel that way, he was driving at reckless speeds and even had some close calls. He also wanted to take two other people to the grave with himself.

No way in hell you convince me this is appropriate behavior in this situation. He wanted to crash, he was just to much of a coward to actually drive head first into a tree

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Johanneskodo t1_iy2z0hh wrote

Also a 100km/h in a town is pretty much trying to kill an innocent person.

What they did was fucked up and if he beat his „friend“ up I would understand but don‘t put this on innocent bystanders.

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augstd t1_iy2urgl wrote

Seriously! It's kinda creepy how many people are co soloing op when he did shitty things too. As well as slut shaming the exs friend.

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cmori3 t1_iy2mnky wrote

No more fucked up than crawling into your friend's bed and fooling around with his girlfriend while he sleeps, then asking for a cross-country ride home. I mean their behavior actually seems more irrational than his.

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RedDoom87 t1_iy2se2q wrote

yeah, that's fucking cruel. fucking your best friend's girlfriend while he is sleeping right beside you isn't just cheating and lying, that's a psychological attack.

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markwell9 t1_iy2n7ld wrote

Nah. You apparently dont find loyalty and honesty in enough regard.

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Arrasor t1_iy2tlfp wrote

There's a reason in every single country out there, endangering someone else's life is more severely punished by law than disloyalty or dishonesty.

You apparently don't hold lives in high enough regard.

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Corvus_Manufaktura t1_iy2vtu0 wrote

Yeah, this right here. Cheating is a horrible thing to do to someone, I don't condone it in the slightest but it's certainly not an offense worthy of death

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Corvus_Manufaktura t1_iy2nhqh wrote

I do. But endangering someone's life over it is not okay. There's no "justice" in it, only vengeance.

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