JadeLogan123 t1_iwg2emz wrote on November 15, 2022 at 11:10 AM

Reply to comment by [deleted] in TIFU because I didn't dance with my crush at prom by NewAgeRetroNerd

How is it “movie like”? To me, it’s showing me that they can laugh at themselves, have a sense of humour and shows they care about you in a non-pressuring way. Majority of women like men who make us laugh. It’s attractive.

LooseEnvironment7911 t1_iwh0m42 wrote on November 15, 2022 at 4:06 PM

I’m F23, and I like romantic gestures too. However, I won’t disagree that some gestures can be a bit cheesy. This idea is sweet don’t get me wrong, but it’s a bit corny. Some people really like cheesy though! While I think this could be a good idea if OP’s crush enjoys things like this, I would personally cringe. I think OP should ask their crush to be their date for the next dance and make up for the lack of dancing together there

JadeLogan123 t1_iwhvg0a wrote on November 15, 2022 at 7:26 PM

Not going to lie, I’d probably find it cheesy as well but you never know unless you try. At the very least it may loosen him up and get them both talking. I will always remember this one guy who came chatting me up on 20th birthday (31 next week so a while ago). He came with those really bad cheesy chat up lines (like “if I could change the alphabet I’d put I and U together”). He kept going with as many as he could remember, laughing through them (making me laugh as well), in a charming way that somehow worked. Cheesy as but it got me laughing, got us talking and made him memorable.

[deleted] t1_iwg5ix4 wrote on November 15, 2022 at 11:50 AM

We like women who make us laugh too! :) Thats very attractive indeed.

I just dont think every women would think thats funny, and im like 99% sure you cant speak for all women aswell.

JadeLogan123 t1_iwhtuka wrote on November 15, 2022 at 7:16 PM

It wouldn’t necessarily make me laugh either but some people would find it funny. Not trying to speak for all women but I feel majority would agree with me, that humour is important.