(I've never wrote here so I don't really know where to begin and how to format so I just write it like I saw ot from tiktoks. Bruh)
I (m 19) had my prom last friday and after the prom the after party started. I live in Europe so obviously drunk that night. I quickly hit it of with a girl from my class whom I like and almost every time we went out together before that night to drink with a group we used to mess around a bit. So after dancing and kissing with her I went out to help send one of my friends home because he didn't feel so good. When I returned she and one of her friends were outside and was waiting for her mom to pick them up. She asked me if I wanted to go home with her but I refused because I thought that she wasn't feeling so good either and I didn't wanted to go home with her and her mom(big mistake). We agreed that we would do that another time and waited for their ride.
After that I went back to the party where I danced with 2 other girls from my class. I know it sounds bad but other than dancing we didn't do anything else. The next day a few of my friends showed me videos of me dancing with those girls and said that they saw me messing around with them too and that they were proud of me. The thing is that other than dancing nothing ever happened with them and many people said that they saw us kissing etc. and that they captured them on videos but when they showed me these videos they could see that I'm telling the truth.
The problem is that the girl I actually did something with is now cold with me and pretty much every other girl in my class thinks that Im a doucebag for messing around with 3 girls which I didn't do.
TL;DR I had the chance to go home with a girl but I refused because I'm a degenerate and now almost everyone in my class thinks that I'm a doucebag.
Unfiltered_America t1_ixqxtzd wrote
The only regret you should have is your choice in friends. You acted responsibly, they're assholes.