Submitted by Stormy95 t3_z4hy4j in tifu

(I've never wrote here so I don't really know where to begin and how to format so I just write it like I saw ot from tiktoks. Bruh)

I (m 19) had my prom last friday and after the prom the after party started. I live in Europe so obviously drunk that night. I quickly hit it of with a girl from my class whom I like and almost every time we went out together before that night to drink with a group we used to mess around a bit. So after dancing and kissing with her I went out to help send one of my friends home because he didn't feel so good. When I returned she and one of her friends were outside and was waiting for her mom to pick them up. She asked me if I wanted to go home with her but I refused because I thought that she wasn't feeling so good either and I didn't wanted to go home with her and her mom(big mistake). We agreed that we would do that another time and waited for their ride.

After that I went back to the party where I danced with 2 other girls from my class. I know it sounds bad but other than dancing we didn't do anything else. The next day a few of my friends showed me videos of me dancing with those girls and said that they saw me messing around with them too and that they were proud of me. The thing is that other than dancing nothing ever happened with them and many people said that they saw us kissing etc. and that they captured them on videos but when they showed me these videos they could see that I'm telling the truth.

The problem is that the girl I actually did something with is now cold with me and pretty much every other girl in my class thinks that Im a doucebag for messing around with 3 girls which I didn't do.

TL;DR I had the chance to go home with a girl but I refused because I'm a degenerate and now almost everyone in my class thinks that I'm a doucebag.

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Unfiltered_America t1_ixqxtzd wrote

The only regret you should have is your choice in friends. You acted responsibly, they're assholes.

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Stormy95 OP t1_ixr02ui wrote

I dont blame them they thought i did something which I didn't and after I explained myself they believe me but the biggest problem is that the word already got out and many girl from my class said that they also saw me with those 2 girls

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AcrobaticSource3 t1_ixr5zj2 wrote

> was waiting for her mom to pick them up. She asked me if I wanted to go home with her

You turned down a threesome with a girl and her mom?

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Stormy95 OP t1_ixrbdjx wrote

Omg should've thought of that now I understand why everyone thinks im a douchebag

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Patient-Quarter-1684 t1_ixqzqp9 wrote

Yeah. If mom was cool with you going home with them, yfu big time.

Might have had a realllllllly good time.

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Stormy95 OP t1_ixr2gt0 wrote

Idk maybe, i just didn't want to be someone who takes advantage of someone else. I just don't really know how can I save this, obviously I don't want to be a clown and apologise for something I didn't do, but I also want to secure that bag. I'm a bit lost

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JMark1 t1_ixrkfop wrote

Not sure how to turn that situation.. but I do know what you shouldn't do...

DO NOT, under any circumstance, apologize to her for what happened that night!

Why would you? You did nothing wrong to her!

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svanegmond t1_ixs2kow wrote

This did not happen.

Prom? In november?

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