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_coffee_ t1_j1dfytj wrote

Explain to me exactly why you'd want to be in a relationship with that person.

Seriously, why?

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fliguana t1_j1dhim2 wrote

Money.

"Rich dude" was all the description in the post.

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throwaway995003 OP t1_j1dhx1t wrote

I just mention he's a "rich dude" because I'm a bit bitter over the rich guys I've attracted in the past. Would rather date someone who isn't. The story proves my point lol.

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fliguana t1_j1dpvw3 wrote

The taxonomy if men is wider than "rich-not rich".

There are just as many jerks and alcoholics in the non-rich category. More, actually.

Have you given a thought what you want in a mate, besides financial standing?

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throwaway995003 OP t1_j1e8gzs wrote

True. I don't care about their financial standing more socio-economical standing lol. But I haven't had many good relationships. I ideally want someone who doesn't have a substance issue, isn't married, only hit me consensually, and not vanilla. uh.. yeah. That's it.

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RetroReactiveRuckus t1_j1fv0g5 wrote

Caring about socioeconomic status is caring about how much money they have and then some. So yeah you do care about financial standing.

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throwaway995003 OP t1_j1dgkp9 wrote

That is such a good question. I have issues. Would love someone to want me. But that kinda mindset gets you these guys. Never had a good relationship. Don't even know what that looks like. Guess I'm taking what I can get. Or subconsciously think I deserve.

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