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OdesseyOfDarkness t1_j1pmusd wrote

I did not read all of your very long long story, I know it does not feel like it but at 21 you are just a kid and you still have a lot to learn and mistakes to be made. One shining light in this is that you feel horrible about what happened, a bad person would not feel the way you do, so yay you are a good person who fucked up welcome to the fucking club.

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Melodic-Spite-5918 OP t1_j1pn4to wrote

Thanks for the kindness. I know I have the capacity to be better, the thought that just eats me up more than anything else is the trauma I must have caused in her. I will never be able to forgive myself for that and I will never have the chance of changing what happened. But at the very least I know I can take steps so that this doesn't ever happen again.

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Training-Throatt t1_j1qjkah wrote

21 is an adult and attempted rape isn't "a good person who fucked up". A good person who fucked up is getting too drunk and throwing up, not trying to forcibly assault someone else. At 21 you should know not to touch someone without consent.

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