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kenlasalle t1_j28y33h wrote

Speaking as someone who was once ruled by his regrets, allow me to share this advice I was once told: Every regret holds you back from a better future. Regrets are our past tripping us up and preventing us from moving on. Finding a way to shut down your regret response is not easy and it takes patience but the more you try the better you will get at ignoring regret.

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compellor t1_j29waxp wrote

What about ragrets? Are those ok?

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GoldenFrog14 t1_j29ylox wrote

No. No ragrets

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lpbale0 t1_j2a7qf1 wrote

I mean... She had regrets, so now there's no rugrats

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loki518 t1_j29rwrk wrote

Yes, I double that. What I'm doing myself is to just try to take these situations as learning experiences for the future and do it better then.

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kenlasalle t1_j2akgqu wrote

Sounds like a good way to go. I wish you the best.

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loki518 t1_j2bemn5 wrote

Thank you :)

I mean unfortunately that's not my actual problem lol but that's at least how I try to work out those situations. Just doing what seems right and if it wasn't then I reflect on it and try to learn.

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OrionWingSouth t1_j2avr9m wrote

What can I do if what I regret continues to happen despite my best efforts to change it?

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