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briang123 t1_j2a8jl7 wrote

You obviously still had feelings for your ex if you could still comfort her like that. You need to realize that your current girlfriend didn't mean as much to you if you were willing to spend anytime on your ex.

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SlowCrates t1_j2an3jj wrote

Life isn't that simple. You can love more than one person at a time. He should have been open about what was going on, though.

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KBunn t1_j2ar4ge wrote

But if he'd told her in advance she might have prevented his booty call. Why set himself up for that disappointment?

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tofujones t1_j2bi5v3 wrote

But it is. People need to stop using rebound relationships to try to fix their issues and continually breaking people and using them as an emotional crutch. It's nothing, but excuses.

If you're capable of loving more than one, then that's your business. EVERYONE needs to consent. Not cheating in a monogamous relationship is not hard.

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SlowCrates t1_j2chq2z wrote

Life is not that simple. But it requires maturity to navigate life.

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briang123 t1_j2bcluy wrote

You're right, it's called being unfaithful.

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