When I had our child we were both working. I was on FMLA for three months then went back to work part time while he paid for the majority of the bills but now we both work full time and I’m a full time student. He works 40 hours a week and I avg around 30-40 depending on client call offs. He works third shift so his sleep pattern is awake all night and sleep until our kid gets home from school then he goes back to bed when I get home from work.