Well you’re not right but you’re not wrong either.
There’s no “100% this is what a relationship is” deal. Every relationship is different and if he thinks that’s okay then sure that’s fine but if it’s not okay with you then that’s fine too and you need to talk about this with him. You two need to come to an understanding and find some common ground. Maybe he can go to the concert but he can’t stay in the same hotel or something like that. If he won’t budge at all then you have to either compromise and allow this but he has to allow something you want or just end it if you can’t compromise that heavily.
I personally wouldn’t allow that and I would break up if they can’t give that up. Not because I don’t like them anymore but I don’t want to be in a relationship that we don’t agree on this fundamental thing.
1Killag123 t1_iuj26hg wrote
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Well you’re not right but you’re not wrong either.
There’s no “100% this is what a relationship is” deal. Every relationship is different and if he thinks that’s okay then sure that’s fine but if it’s not okay with you then that’s fine too and you need to talk about this with him. You two need to come to an understanding and find some common ground. Maybe he can go to the concert but he can’t stay in the same hotel or something like that. If he won’t budge at all then you have to either compromise and allow this but he has to allow something you want or just end it if you can’t compromise that heavily.
I personally wouldn’t allow that and I would break up if they can’t give that up. Not because I don’t like them anymore but I don’t want to be in a relationship that we don’t agree on this fundamental thing.