AnotherPalePianist
AnotherPalePianist t1_iujtbzf wrote
Reply to comment by larlyssa in How do I RSVP to a wedding when half the couple has suddenly pulled back? by [deleted]
Have fun and safe travels!
AnotherPalePianist t1_iujse4k wrote
Reply to comment by WeeklyConversation8 in my female cousin got a new handsome, tall boyfriend and my mom is sad that my boyfriend doesn’t compare by RemoteAnything1265
He certainly thought he was educated enough to represent himself in court🤢
AnotherPalePianist t1_iujs9rk wrote
Reply to comment by StarDatAssinum in my female cousin got a new handsome, tall boyfriend and my mom is sad that my boyfriend doesn’t compare by RemoteAnything1265
Absolutely. I’ve had plenty of boyfriends my mom didn’t like. She never once said anything negative about them unless they were treating me poorly because they were people I cared about. It would have been rude and honestly pretty cruel. OP’s mom needs to learn some manners🙃
AnotherPalePianist t1_iujcxjr wrote
Reply to comment by Billowing_Flags in My partner of 5 years wants to move out but not break-up... I feel so defeated. by [deleted]
Yup. I was in a five year relationship and it was slow as mud. I ended it for several reasons (mostly I realized he didn’t even like me but whatever), took some time for me, and my current boyfriend and I already talk about the future. Plans to move in together (next year), moving cities when we’re done with school, a timeline for getting married and trying to start a family……it’s been a few months. It’s flourishing. The difference is astounding when someone is actually prepared to be your partner (and you’re prepared to be theirs) and not just your best buddy who you love a lot and then waste time to “see where things go.”
At most, I’d assume a year is enough to tell. Thoughts?
AnotherPalePianist t1_iujby6t wrote
Reply to comment by Azalheea in My partner of 5 years wants to move out but not break-up... I feel so defeated. by [deleted]
It sounds like your bf is wasting your time. That’s not fair to either of you, and I’m sorry it’s happening :/
AnotherPalePianist t1_iujbsai wrote
Reply to comment by Donutduchess in My partner of 5 years wants to move out but not break-up... I feel so defeated. by [deleted]
Yeah….idk what gender has to do with any of this, but people are literally allowed to not be happy in their relationships anymore. And that’s good enough reason to end it
AnotherPalePianist t1_iujblom wrote
Reply to comment by BabyBagBitch in My partner of 5 years wants to move out but not break-up... I feel so defeated. by [deleted]
Yup. Usually it’s more about people pleasing, trying to give it more time “because they’re such a good person,” or just the unfortunate fact that people don’t always know what they want. It sucks to be on either side of it, but god….cheating is not the only reason people leave
AnotherPalePianist t1_iujb9vx wrote
Reply to comment by ABCDEFuckenG in My partner of 5 years wants to move out but not break-up... I feel so defeated. by [deleted]
I think they may have🤔
AnotherPalePianist t1_iujb2b4 wrote
Reply to comment by Corfiz74 in My partner of 5 years wants to move out but not break-up... I feel so defeated. by [deleted]
Unfortunately most of them aren’t built solely on love either. I’m not saying it’s not a possibility that he’s a jerk, found someone else, whatever….but I think it’s also totally possible he just learned (unfortunately the hard way, through living together in a matchbox) that the two of them don’t click the way he needs. He may regret it later. I hope OP is beyond this by that too me if he does
AnotherPalePianist t1_iuk2p5q wrote
Reply to comment by Ornery_Adult in should I tell my girlfriend that her parents had lunch with me? by Practiccount
First thought when I read this—and they have access to their house?? Replace the whole box, make sure they haven’t tampered with your GF’s birth control if she’s on it, etc.