BonesIIX

BonesIIX t1_j9uujql wrote

Ultimately there is no way to make it significantly better just due to raw distance. You really should look for a different job if moving is completely out of the question as your post suggested. Figure out your monthly travel cost currently and see if you can find anything closer that is at least the same earning or within the margin of what you spend to travel to and from Amherst.

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BonesIIX t1_j6ohikr wrote

I mean there are high rise residential buildings that are condos rather than apartments. It seems like people simply forget that it's possible to have a construction company that isn't also a management company.

There's a way to build density but actually give the occupants actual ownership. That's my problem with all the new developments. How is it going to help someone to buy a living space when they spend about the same, if not more to rent than a mortgage?

Equity from an owned unit is so fundamentally important for wealth building over the decades you live in a space. Sure people have space to live but are essentially kept at a huge financial disadvantage by living in apartments vs condos.

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BonesIIX t1_j6o4pf5 wrote

Eh, it's not really singularly NIMBYs, as much as that's a convenient Boogeyman. Boston has had an insane growth/interest since the growth of software, biotech industries, and the complete beautification of the city with the completion of the Big Dig in 2008. Software industry didn't really become a thing in Boston until the mid aughts as well.

It's much easier to say "boo NIMBYS", sure but it's a much more complicated mix of factors that are less than 2 decades in the making.

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BonesIIX t1_j6o0g8p wrote

Man, I wish there was a better way to solve the housing crisis aside from essentially selling all newly zoned residential land to corporate development/management companies.

We're not creating more housing as much as we are selling huge amounts of land to developers who will simply charge above market rate because they have an outsized impact on price setting.

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BonesIIX t1_j6jzmri wrote

You're not a PoS as you described. This stuff happens when you're young and it feels like a much bigger issue because relationships are a new, exciting thing you're just learning about.

Talk to your dad. He's 100% going to understand and can probably give you some advice, or at least another person to talk to. The worst thing you can do is sit and stew about it. Drama problems feel 100% worse if you don't have someone to talk to. Even if they can't fix it/help, just talking about it aloud helps you deal with it.

Trust me, things are going to be okay.

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BonesIIX t1_ivki97f wrote

Reply to comment by jabbanobada in Who are you voting for? by aheksow

That's basically the problem with the modern GOP and thus makes them almost uniformly unelectable.

Basically the last remaining non psychotic Republicans are ones like Baker who are on their way out.

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BonesIIX t1_ivgrcka wrote

Acela is not it worth it between NYC and BOS. The track improvement to run the Acela meant the NERegional can run faster (125mph in some sections) this means the Acela is only 30min faster between here and NYC just because of the extra stops.

Book far in advance and it's usually cheap.

Pro tip, red caps on the way home. Makes getting on at NYC easy AF and it's free

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BonesIIX t1_ivgnkc9 wrote

Honestly I'd love if there was a reasonable republican who wasn't part of the current GOP. Aka a Baker replacement. One of the best parts of MA has been that we've been a little slower on reactionary politics compared to other deep blue states.

MA state legislature only has 2 republicans so ultimately the legislature has democratic control to do whatever the hell they want, but I do like the idea of some semblance of an outside POV when passing new legislation. The only problem is that the GOP has completely made themselves unelectable and have put themselves on the wrong side of almost every social issue.

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