Calm down there thrwaway9932 is it your time of the month? (tongue in cheek)

I asked why he was being bashed

I didn’t call any one names or say I agreed with op ,I don’t really care that much to pick sides

What makes you think I want praise from a man or anyone ?

I was curious to why him not showering with her on her period was a reason to tell him he was insensitive to her needs etc everyone would be shouting red flag behaviour if a man became emotional because a women didn’t jump at the chance to join him in the shower after he asked

Why is he being bashed for not joining her in the shower ? He states he’d been drinking and was falling to sleep

I’m female but I wouldn’t be angry or emotional if I heard Nah Yeah he made a stupid comment about standing in reddish water but so what ! Being on your period doesn’t excuse you for moaning and expecting men to jump to attention just because you are