Mysteroo

Mysteroo t1_j2umhan wrote

>I've been on the self improvement journey for over 2 years now

My guy, self improvement is not a short exploratory venture. It's a lifelong struggle against the vices that rage against our human nature as people.

If you think 2 years could ever be enough to guarantee that you won't ever experience a momentary relapse into the life you knew before, you've been sold a lie.

What you're describing is a burst of motivation based on novelty. Now that it's gone, you aren't willing to put any effort in because you simply don't want it enough. The benefits don't seem worth the cost. When our mind sees a job that's harder than the reward appears to be worth, we feel tired. It's a physiological mechanism for saving energy. If that's what you're feeling - you need to evaluate why you want to improve in the first place. If you don't have a good reason and you don't care for it, it won't happen.

Lasting self-improvement does not come from frivolous feelings - but a foundational change in your beliefs about yourself, about life, and about what matters.

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Mysteroo OP t1_ivdao74 wrote

I think you're misunderstanding my point - I don't have any issue with giving things away for free to someone who'll make good use of them. And I especially don't mind giving someone a good deal on something.

What I mind is going to a for-profit thrift store that will give me a dollar for a $40 appliance. If I'm going to sell something to a store, I'd like a half-decent price.

But to quote your own logic - "try thinking about your own post." What's wrong with wanting to sell something for a "Half-decent" price? For all you know, I'm barely making ends meet. Instead of presuming to think that the buyer is entitled to a great deal, try considering the seller's situation and whether they might deserve more than 1/5 what they paid for something. You can "look out for folks that you see" too - by paying them appropriately.

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Mysteroo t1_iu3wxbs wrote

Admittedly I was a tad upset when I typed that- but I feel like that's understandable given the context

You're 100% right about the fact that we shouldn't act like our wages are private in the same way that our underwear size is. And culture does indeed empower corporations in that way. No disagreement there

Let's just not pretend like that makes it OUR business to know what OTHER people make. It's better to empower people to share that info themselves than to try and make that choice for them.

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Mysteroo t1_iu1qkcn wrote

Stop abusing the injustice of underpaid workers to justify your own grubby need to know everyone's personal info. Maybe you don't care about privacy but some of us still do.

I'll happily tell anyone what I make and there's no shame in that - but NO ONE has the right to know that information without my consent.

Knowledge IS power. And that's exactly why corporations are trading and selling personal data more than any other commodity. Maybe don't enable them

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Mysteroo t1_itzjzzd wrote

Revealing private info about a person's wages is not "standing up for workers." Giving them the freedom to decide whether or not to disclose that information is

The dude you're responding to has worked with those engineers for years. He'd know the facts of the matter a lot better than you might

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Mysteroo t1_irkmwg2 wrote

I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt but after seeing four different people with these signs I can't help but be skeptical

I can understand being low on funds for a funeral - and this isn't always ideal - but surely a direct cremation can't break the bank that badly right? A lot of churches won't even charge to host a small memorial service

Between 4+ people who are all willing to spend hours outside asking for donations - how much money do they need?

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