Personal_Change_7949
Personal_Change_7949 OP t1_j6omuq8 wrote
Reply to comment by KitPipin in I(19M) am kind of traumatized by the fact that my girlfriend(18F) liked being touched on the face by her crush before me. by Personal_Change_7949
COMPROMISING????????
Personal_Change_7949 OP t1_j6olxxw wrote
Reply to comment by KitPipin in I(19M) am kind of traumatized by the fact that my girlfriend(18F) liked being touched on the face by her crush before me. by Personal_Change_7949
How does me thinking seriously about my future and hers make me not ready for committment?
Personal_Change_7949 OP t1_j6olfsh wrote
Reply to comment by KitPipin in I(19M) am kind of traumatized by the fact that my girlfriend(18F) liked being touched on the face by her crush before me. by Personal_Change_7949
Posted this up for advice and now im in the middle of this god knows what
Personal_Change_7949 OP t1_j6ol3nj wrote
Reply to comment by KitPipin in I(19M) am kind of traumatized by the fact that my girlfriend(18F) liked being touched on the face by her crush before me. by Personal_Change_7949
Why on earth would she break up with me over my previous post?????????
Personal_Change_7949 OP t1_j6okwp8 wrote
Reply to comment by KitPipin in I(19M) am kind of traumatized by the fact that my girlfriend(18F) liked being touched on the face by her crush before me. by Personal_Change_7949
Dude can you maybe calm down
Personal_Change_7949 OP t1_j6oks55 wrote
Reply to comment by KitPipin in I(19M) am kind of traumatized by the fact that my girlfriend(18F) liked being touched on the face by her crush before me. by Personal_Change_7949
I'm sorry....what does boot you out mean?
Personal_Change_7949 OP t1_j6okb95 wrote
Reply to comment by KitPipin in I(19M) am kind of traumatized by the fact that my girlfriend(18F) liked being touched on the face by her crush before me. by Personal_Change_7949
What all I should not be doing and what all I should be doing instead? I realise i was being a big time dick.
Personal_Change_7949 OP t1_j6ok5nq wrote
Reply to comment by KitPipin in I(19M) am kind of traumatized by the fact that my girlfriend(18F) liked being touched on the face by her crush before me. by Personal_Change_7949
She did check mine a month before that so...
Personal_Change_7949 OP t1_j6ojurg wrote
Reply to comment by KitPipin in I(19M) am kind of traumatized by the fact that my girlfriend(18F) liked being touched on the face by her crush before me. by Personal_Change_7949
Can you please elaborate "Her dealing with your shit is straight up tragedy"?
Personal_Change_7949 OP t1_j6oj3ri wrote
Reply to comment by KitPipin in I(19M) am kind of traumatized by the fact that my girlfriend(18F) liked being touched on the face by her crush before me. by Personal_Change_7949
Her crush touching her face and the fact that she liked it.
Personal_Change_7949 OP t1_j6oiy9m wrote
Reply to comment by Love-tea in I(19M) am kind of traumatized by the fact that my girlfriend(18F) liked being touched on the face by her crush before me. by Personal_Change_7949
Thank you so much. This helped a lot. First thing tomorrow morning I'm going to apologise to her for checking her phone. And..it is already being hard for me to maintain a healthy relationship. I really dont want to, but i get riled up at the slighest thing. I really want to work on this but have no idea how to. Can you maybe give some advice on that too? And thanks again.....your answer helped a lotttt
Personal_Change_7949 OP t1_j6oi7gn wrote
Reply to comment by wickednymphet in I(19M) am kind of traumatized by the fact that my girlfriend(18F) liked being touched on the face by her crush before me. by Personal_Change_7949
Sike. Now i realise how patient she is being with me. I talked to her about it and she clarified everything patiently. I do not understand why on earth i am being jealous.
Personal_Change_7949 OP t1_j6oh1hb wrote
Reply to comment by theycalledhermorlock in I(19M) am kind of traumatized by the fact that my girlfriend(18F) liked being touched on the face by her crush before me. by Personal_Change_7949
NO. I did not say that. I made it clear in the post itself that I understand this was a completely normal incident. The problem I need help with is the overthinking it's causing.
Personal_Change_7949 OP t1_j6ogngy wrote
Reply to comment by wickednymphet in I(19M) am kind of traumatized by the fact that my girlfriend(18F) liked being touched on the face by her crush before me. by Personal_Change_7949
No. I did not say that I am not trusting her from now on. She is still my girlfriend and I absolutely trust her. What I am saying is that this incident, even though i dont want it to, is making me question her loyalty towards me. I DONT want to think like this cos i know i can do better
Personal_Change_7949 OP t1_j6og8sp wrote
Reply to comment by razzledazzle626 in I(19M) am kind of traumatized by the fact that my girlfriend(18F) liked being touched on the face by her crush before me. by Personal_Change_7949
Yes. I understand that it is absurd. I feel pretty bad about myself for giving this small incident all this attention in the first place. But that is why i posted this. I need advice on how I should normally be thinking about this. Maybe examples can help.
Personal_Change_7949 OP t1_j6ootw5 wrote
Reply to comment by judgejudyOG in I(19M) am kind of traumatized by the fact that my girlfriend(18F) liked being touched on the face by her crush before me. by Personal_Change_7949
Oh my god. I really dont want to do any harm to her. Can you please advise me on how I can work on my insecurities and what harm it might cause to her if i dont?