The Station nightclub. It’s the only consistent thing people mention when I mention RI.

Bonnet Shores is a specific area within Narragansett. In South Kingstown there is Green Hill near the water or East Matunuck. Inland stretches past the University of Rhode Island so options are endless but the area near Worden Pond and Indian Lake give you the water access while keeping you off the tourist traffic routes.

Bonnet shores and the South Kingstown area might be more in line with your wants. Most of the shoreline is heavily populated during the stretch from Memorial to Labor Day, so no avoiding the NYC vibe there. But I grew up in the area and the hiking, running, etc is great there. Plus you’re close to everything. You can opt for something closer to the ocean or move inland to any of the lake front properties or even more woodsy if you prefer.