SayeretJoe
SayeretJoe t1_ja1akpt wrote
Reply to LPT request: Can anyone give me a couple ideas or things to try, that might alleviate some of the guilt and shame I (28F) feel? by magdeedz
You are not your thoughts! Never compare yourself to others, your progress is only measured by how your journey has made you better in the long run. Be kind to yourself and if you have bad thoughts remember you decide how hooked you get with your thoughts you can just ignore the ugly thoughts, everyone is his own worst critic.
SayeretJoe t1_ja0scc6 wrote
Reply to LPT: If someone is talking loudly over speakerphone in public and you want them to shut up, join in on their conversation. by ConnieKai
Yeah… I believe you will get your ass kicked…
SayeretJoe t1_iy4tbki wrote
Reply to comment by BobDope in [Image] "8 ways to constantly improve" by Butterflies_Books
Joe “Rogaine” 😂
SayeretJoe t1_ixzr7wi wrote
Reply to comment by tacodog7 in [Image] "8 ways to constantly improve" by Butterflies_Books
Agree! There is so much positive toxicity out there, the “one more rep”, “no pain mo gain” “stop depression by smiling” crowd out there is everywhere!
SayeretJoe t1_ixzr1hh wrote
Reply to comment by b4k4ni in [Image] "8 ways to constantly improve" by Butterflies_Books
Self-improvement and work stress have to be aligned and considered for your plans to work!
SayeretJoe t1_ixzqbj8 wrote
Reply to comment by dedicated-pedestrian in [Image] "8 ways to constantly improve" by Butterflies_Books
Agree! Also in my case, try things even if you know they will not be perfect. Do not be afraid to break things while trying. Sometimes perfection makes you endlessly research and stuff but never get started actually doing the things we set out!
SayeretJoe t1_ixzq1es wrote
Reply to comment by barabara4 in [Image] "8 ways to constantly improve" by Butterflies_Books
Our best is all we really have! However do not torture yourself just for “discipline” sake, if you hate running change it for something else, switch it around have fun with it! :)
SayeretJoe t1_ixzi86z wrote
Reply to comment by barabara4 in [Image] "8 ways to constantly improve" by Butterflies_Books
Never compare yourself to others, your success is from being better than you were yesterday, only compare yourself with your old “you”. And it sounds like this is the case, love the process life will never be perfect, there will always be that next shiny achievement to unlock, be happy with the process and be present in life! Best to you!
SayeretJoe t1_ixzhqvp wrote
Reply to comment by NotInsaneMe in [Image] "8 ways to constantly improve" by Butterflies_Books
I like the book by Casper Van der Meulen - MindLift. It helped me map out areas of my life and get ideas of how to organize activities to make improvements. Its a book I usually pickup once a year to see how I am managing.
Also: “How to do the work” by Dr Nicole LePera https://a.co/3idEGIU
SayeretJoe t1_ixzfwmz wrote
Reply to comment by Tahoeclown in [Image] "8 ways to constantly improve" by Butterflies_Books
It is a bit of the: “what came first? The chicken or the egg” situation, but the self is not a closed system, quite the opposite we are a product of our environment.
SayeretJoe t1_ixzfh43 wrote
Reply to comment by vingeran in [Image] "8 ways to constantly improve" by Butterflies_Books
That would be the podcasts and books category, right?
SayeretJoe t1_ixzezvn wrote
Reply to comment by Odd_Rutabaga_7810 in [Image] "8 ways to constantly improve" by Butterflies_Books
“How dare you bring logic into motivation?!”
- angry motivator
SayeretJoe t1_ixzepxw wrote
Reply to comment by SgtDoughnut in [Image] "8 ways to constantly improve" by Butterflies_Books
You can start with one professional that you will pay to give you advice on the subject you want to improve, after that you will probably meet people from the “industry” on your own!
SayeretJoe t1_isjyl4v wrote
Reply to [homemade] korean fried chicken by AC_Schnitzel
It looks like a wrestler…
SayeretJoe t1_jaa5y4p wrote
Reply to What drugs do ducks do? by CK_HAMAD48
Kuack?