Well congratulations and good luck on getting everything sorted!

You should really try to get your headcount solidified sooner. Sooner you get a firm headcount and what you want, the sooner you can book. Waiting til the last minute (yes, in wedding speak, a month prior is the last minute) means higher prices/less availability.

Onedoo, Cafe Dear Leon, and Ovenbird are in your general location and each of them offer coffee and breakfast sandwiches in a to-go environment.

I mean come on this just isn't even remotely true. Onedoo, Dooby's, Cafe Dear Leon, and Ovenbird, are all wonderful cafes with great coffee and breakfast sandwiches. Maybe leave the one block radius where the two cafes you mentioned are and you might be impressed.

So it's the commenter's fault for being white? Go to therapy.