I have Aspergers Syndrome and I spent years learning how to “adjust” myself to seem normal-ish.
My girlfriend doesn’t mind it as much. I told her i have AS pretty soon into dating.
My advice would be try not to think about it too much. Think of people with Aspergers as human computers haha. We do things by logic and not by emotions. For example if there is an emergency he will probably be the most sane person in the room and will think straight when everyone else is panicking.
Also the good thing about Aspergers is that we are very loyal and supportive. Any problems you have he will most likely give you the best solution.
OCD on the other hand is not very good… maybe as time goes you can kindly ask him to chill on all the rules he has haha
I have an OCD when it comes to my personal belongings, i don’t like when people move my stuff but I do understand when my girlfriend does it.
Anyways, as long as he is a good dude just go for it
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I have Aspergers Syndrome and I spent years learning how to “adjust” myself to seem normal-ish. My girlfriend doesn’t mind it as much. I told her i have AS pretty soon into dating. My advice would be try not to think about it too much. Think of people with Aspergers as human computers haha. We do things by logic and not by emotions. For example if there is an emergency he will probably be the most sane person in the room and will think straight when everyone else is panicking. Also the good thing about Aspergers is that we are very loyal and supportive. Any problems you have he will most likely give you the best solution. OCD on the other hand is not very good… maybe as time goes you can kindly ask him to chill on all the rules he has haha I have an OCD when it comes to my personal belongings, i don’t like when people move my stuff but I do understand when my girlfriend does it. Anyways, as long as he is a good dude just go for it