Trust me, the housekeepers at ANY colleges are very, very, very used to finding throw up anywhere and everywhere. At least you were already in the bathroom! :) if you feel really bad, you can chat with them about it and apologize. Otherwise, just try to forget about it. You’re fine and they aren’t going to hate you or anything.

This is beautifully written. I hope you continue writing.

But unless she’s leaving because you creeped her out (which it doesn’t sound like it is) then why not send her a postcard, letter, text, or phone call?

Well yeah, obviously. Only teenagers think that 30 year olds have their life together. But at 24 she definitely should be on a path of understanding why she reacts the way she does around sex and how it might not be healthy. It didn’t really seem like she did and instead blamed others (as OP found).

See the thing is he said she’s 24! That’s way too old to be this childish and immature about this. She honestly sounds like one of those girls who was raised in a cult or something, super isolated and weird outdated views on sex

She’s 24 and this insecure and immature about this? She’s definitely not ready for a sexual relationship.

That’s really weird . . . Almost seems like she was trying to hold it over your head. Or that she’s making fun of virgins, when she’s one? Like the mindset is so weird to me.