>we had another round of interrogation about my anal interests a few hours ago which led emily to indulge me with her secret side gig -- she's a professional dominatrix.

Ummmm... what? That's a pretty massive red flag to me.

It's reddit, don't sweat it. Not even sure why people are that bent out of shape. Sounds like you were pretty clear with what you wanted and didn't chase the sister either. With hindsight, you probably should've just let it be, but wasn't so bad.

Next time you see her is all about getting her name. That's all you need to do. As long as you can successfully do that and she's happy to talk to her, you're in with a chance.

Or you awkwardly hang out and just wait for the priest/celebrant to say it at the wedding.

To go one step further, a stripper is the pathetic version of an escort. She's a sure thing and probably costs you a lot less.

I'm assuming it's like a credit card, right? The numbers are way bigger than the actual amount of accounts available so they skip many and have a fault check built in. At worst, you usually have to have the name match up with the account.

Honestly... sounds more like you dodged a bullet.

>You're not gonna get killed

I mean, she's black and in the US and breaking the law.

Canadian customs won't kill her, but I wouldn't put it past some other law enforcement doing it.

It gets like that sometimes. But you contradicted yourself multiple times, so it needed to be pointed out. Have a good day.

Which part didn't you say? The bit I quoted from you, or the bit where you suggested that looking at scantily clad women on the internet doesn't count as cheating because the woman isn't involved:

>But you looking at arousing media isn't a "boundary" of hers. Boundaries are behaviors that involve her and make her uncomfortable.

Because you definitely said both.

>Boundaries are behaviors that involve her

No you're right, you never said that.

Since you swear it's different, please explain how looking at scantily clad women in a sexual manner doesn't involve her, but cheating does.

What a load of crap. You understand that some people get married when they share the same values and are both happy with the rules, right? Don't act like one rule fits all, it doesn't.

Yes, I was picking apart the way you said it that suggests cheating is somehow OK because "She's not involved".

For some people, monogamy includes not staring at (semi) naked women for sexual gratification.

>Boundaries are behaviors that involve her and make her uncomfortable.

So it's only cheating if she's included, got it.

Maybe I'll get shot down for this but see if you can find a little something that looks similar to the dog. Little fluffy toy or something. Pay $10 or $20 or something and tell your co-worker that you missed the little guy too and thought maybe he could stay here in the office with him forever in spirit. Shows you care about your co-worker too.

Plastic bag, and held around his neck a little. Seriously this guy sounds like a complete asshole, but somehow she (sorry, assuming?) puts up with that shit.

Maybe so. I'm literally just pointing out the fact that it has jumped.

It's also extremely well known that it is manipulated... a lot. I would not be surprised in the slightest if it went back up out of nowhere. The rest of the economy might tank it though.

Yeah, I find it odd that she said she cheated and then it's assaulted, but she keeps his contact details? I understand that actions from victims can be a bit chaotic at times but it doesn't make sense to me.

>And technically, If you look at history

Companies have been around for hundreds of years, bitcoin is just over a single decade.

In the last 2 months it's gone from $US16k->$US23k. That's a 30% increase.

Don't get me wrong, I think it's an absolute shit show and a scam and would never ever ever suggest anyone invest their life savings into it, but it's clearly started back on an upswing.

If the company is liquidated, it has actual assets to sell. Bitcoin does not. You're 100% guaranteed a return of $0 when they tank but a company sells up all their assets and then pays out creditors in a particular order. Shares are usually last, but at least there's a reasonable chance you'll get something in return, even if it's only a fraction.

It's none of these things. Why would a publisher drop a book deal because of a single credit from a video on Youtube that could easily be verified as incorrect? There's definitely something else going on.

>and die without ever going more than a few miles from where they started.

One 2 separate occasions last year I heard about people (Gang members) living in LA that have never seen the ocean in their 20+ years of life. It's like 20kms and they've never been and likely won't. Many of them won't go more than a few blocks from their homes.

Sounds like you should get some ointment applied to it. Happy to assist if you need some help.

It's not really. It's impossible to raise everything with a partner, you only talk about the things that are most important to you. If there's absolutely no indication that it's off limits, then why would it be a problem? If it does every come up, then you can apologise, but it probably won't.