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boxer_dogs_dance t1_jc5a75a wrote

So I have read some that could be distilled down to a power point presentation without losing any content, some that were pure bullshit, and some that contained cutting edge psychological and neurological content, leading to very useful tips. Cal Newport, John Gottman, Dr Wendy Suzuki, Eve Rodsky were helpful to me, among others.

I also have benefited from books on psychology, sociology and philosophy that worked for me like self help even though they weren't technically self help books. Examples Flow the psychology of optimal experience by Csikzentmihalyi and Being Wrong Adventures on the Margin of Error, and Breakfast with Seneca and Man's Search for Meaning.

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boxer_dogs_dance t1_ja7l0ft wrote

So honestly you should take your request to r/fantasy and r/printsf and r/suggestmeabook.

Publishing is a business and is subject to trends and the demands of the market. There is a wide range and variety of what you are looking for in older books, not all of them in realist settings from other Centuries. Although as a fan of historical adventure in particular, I think you are missing out.

The Deed of Paksenarrion has what you are looking for. I am currently loving the Lions of Al Rassan which has a character who matches your request learning to work with adults. It's an amazing book.

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boxer_dogs_dance t1_ja2txb7 wrote

We just finished the Master and Margarita in r/classicbookclub with discussions one chapter at a time. You could start and read our commentary.

Also the Master and Margarita is a 20th century book. It reads faster. The prose is more efficient. The book is somewhat surreal.

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boxer_dogs_dance t1_j9yiqi2 wrote

When I studied literature, we were told that there was a shift in critical opinion about what makes good literature in the 20th century. One of the changes was valuing short efficient concise prose. Hemingway was influential in this change but he was not the only influence. Before a certain time they are literally working toward different ideals than you are.

Classics are classic because enough people valued and appreciated them that they were not forgotten.

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boxer_dogs_dance t1_j9tyjoi wrote

You need something at your level. Middle grade fiction or nonfiction, or adult books published for Lower skilled readers. Harlequin romance novels or the readers digest select or readers digest condensed books would be good.

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boxer_dogs_dance t1_j9pyhdq wrote

Most impactful required book from high school was Death of a Salesman.

Favorite book from highschool is tied between the Sword in the Stone, the Hobbit and Watership Down.

My most impactful college assigned book was the Death of Ivan Illych which I still think is the best book I have ever read.

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