huh_phd

huh_phd t1_iyee0q7 wrote

>You can't learn this type of stuff yourself. You need a second person to be a sounding board.

Why?

>creepily obsessed with my tattoos

Oh I did. I asked him if he wanted to see the one on my ass too. He probably tried to profile me as an inmate (guy worked at the prison too). I politely reminded him that I am also a doctor, and told him to fuck himself not so politely.

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huh_phd t1_iydlxhf wrote

>A therapist has learned to do exactly that

Exactly what? Listen and affirm?

>but they're the one teaching me how to do this

Not to be rude, but couldn't you also learn this stuff, online for free without exposing yourself?

The objectivity is nice, but they just dig and dig - even if there's no substance. Example: a therapist GRILLED me about my tattoos, for almost half a session (out of network and cost me $275) and refused to accept that I got them because I like art?

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huh_phd t1_ixdowqt wrote

I have it covered through my auto insurance. It's pretty convenient. They came to URI and replaced my windshield in the parking lot while I was in class. I drove home after it set and it was great

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huh_phd t1_iwzkxi5 wrote

Sweet cakes bakery in Wakefield. I tried LOTS of cupcakes for my wedding and sweet cakes came out victorious. Reasonable prices and on the smaller side, but very dense and flavorful. Voted best in South County 7 years in a row

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