i_know_tofu
i_know_tofu t1_j1p4erp wrote
Reply to LPT: this holiday season remember to send a message to your elderly relatives. by derpieherpie
I am the elderly relative.
i_know_tofu t1_izunux1 wrote
Reply to comment by MediumRarePorkChop in Used drywall compound instead of tile adhesive. How screwed am I ? by xdr567
Yeah, water will basically dissolve the mud.
i_know_tofu t1_iy8g5um wrote
The amphetamines-like-candy look...
i_know_tofu t1_iu9bnzb wrote
Reply to LPT Request: how to deal with an emotionally draining friend I have to see on a daily basis by mercurysnowman
"To be really honest, I'm feeling really weighed down by the lack of positivity in our conversations. I need you to find someone who can actually support you with the issues you are dealing with. I can't only hear about the bad things".
OP....you need to realize this is who you are for them, someone to dump their shit on. Other people are getting other versions of them, the version that smiles and laughs and is helpful, and you are who they download garbage on. Don't be that person. Have a boundary. "Look, for every time you tell me something shitty about your life you are going to have to come up with a positive, too. I want to be your friend but this is not friendship".
It's going to end the 'friendship' because this is our role for them but...who gives a fuck. You'll be done.
i_know_tofu t1_j6lnlmg wrote
Reply to comment by HappyHarryHardOn in Anne Murray at the Troubadour “right in the middle of these guys who were totally all three sheets to the wind” 1973 by eaglemaxie
Hard to imagine Anne Murray joining in...