Pick a room or an area of a room each day. Clean it. By focusing on a smaller area (rather than the whole house) you will have an easier time of seeing what needs to be done. And, if you keep it up, day after day, she is going to notice and appreciate what you do. Also, be sure the shared spaces are cleared of your own stuff.

can I see a picture of this?

not regional, but maybe generational. Definitely anti-war.

It's more generational than location. Been a thanksgiving tradition in my southern family for years.

or maybe more anti-war folk than generational... but definitely not about where you are from; other than it is American.