justnocrazymaker

justnocrazymaker t1_jcrawej wrote

For me, setting a boundary is the key. Being brave enough to say, “no that doesn’t work for me” in the moment. I can say that right away, before the ask becomes upsetting, before I can get angry with myself for being a “pushover”. It’s hard, it takes practice, but I’ve found the sooner I put up a boundary and the less I JADE when pressed, the less I feel I’ve been wronged or hurt or taken advantage of in the first place.

It still takes practice though.

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justnocrazymaker t1_j1rpfey wrote

I agree with comments saying rent gear until you decide to stick with it.

Mt Abram offers beginner packages for like $90 which includes lesson, rental, lift ticket, and helmet. They’re also offering $35 lift tickets all winter. Might be a bit of a haul but it’s pretty quiet, not too intimidating for beginners, fun family mountain vibe.

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