I tried to call twice he did not answer so I sent this “Or if you need to talk don’t hesitate to reach out to me, you’ve been there for me and I’ll always be there for you! I love you and I’m sorry if I did anything to cause waves in your relationship and would love to help anyway you think I can❤️”

You are right! Unfortunately I live 1,000 miles away or I would definitely meet up with him

My bad I will definitely send a follow up text them asking if he is alright

I sent him the following text “Hey I don’t want to cause anything just want want to know if I did anything that upset SIL because she blocked me on Facebook. If so then I want to apologize but I’m not sure what I did”

The reason I say it’s weird is because she does not spend time with her without me and only sees her with me or when she comes to family events my dad called her the other daughter he always wanted since we knew each other before any of my brothers were married or even dating their now wives. But yea I agree SIL might not see her that way

I can maintain a relationship with my brother and nephews (sorta) without her. She sometimes when she’s upset will isolate herself and make her boys stay in her room with her but my 14yo nephew just got a cellphone so I can be in contact with him that way!

Update: she blocked everyone in my brothers family. Aunts, uncles, cousins, and our parents. Weirdly she did not block my friends from home she has gone out with when I’m home

Update: she blocked everyone in my brothers family. Aunts, uncles, cousins, and our parents. Weirdly she did not block my friends from home she has gone out with when I’m home. So it’s not just me

It just seems so random since that argument happened in May and I wasn’t even there and allowed her to vent about my parents to me too. The reason I want to reach out is because it makes me feel like I did something wrong! I treated her like a friend, even to the point when I was home for whatever she would go out with me and my friends