Had she done better with inviting you out or has it stayed the same? Your concerns are valid you wont know how she behaves when your not there, you can only take her word that she is acting respectfully towards your relationship and you, unfortuatly cheating happens but its gonna happen whether you are with her or not, if she wants to cheat she will, i know it sucks not having control over that aspect of the relationship and its scary as fuck, i have the same worries at times, but remind yourself she choose you and that she wants to be with you. Focus on what you can actually control which are your thoughts and how you act and hope she has the same respect for the relationship as you.

She cheated on you man, drunk or high doesnt matter she cheated, and if they cheat its over no exceptions. What would have happened if you didnt catch them, she would have probably taken it even further. If she knew she had an attraction for this guy she shouldnt have been drinking alone with him, she wanted this now she needs to be dumped and make single, you deserve better man

what is your concern for when she goes out? Why cant you go to some of these bar outing or partys with her? do you trust her? does she act inappropriate when drinking?

What trust issues are their in your relationship, you have made previous posts but deleted them so whats the trust issue? One of the comments on your "i messed up" post included that you had hidden chats with men, infidelity and a tinder account, whats that about? Also why are you with someone who one you dont trust and two treats you this way? you dont deserve to be treated like this and you have known for a while you should leave him.

what was the comment you made?