Thanks, I get most of what you've said. The point about their relationship affecting ours makes some sense and is an interesting viewpoint I hadnt considered before. Thats not something that has happened from what I can remember.

Didn't mean "whatever she likes" but whatever is reasonable. Like this situation probably is.

I'm really bad with remembering and naming names haha.

Right, that sounds logical. I didn't ask a lot about him yet, at the risk of sounding too inquisitive. Will ask this tonight