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plaaplaaplaaplaa t1_j1dvth9 wrote

Gender bias is strong with this one. This man’s space was clearly violated even if you read the whole story. You need to understand that the story in itself clearly shows that he felt uncomfortable. Probably no damage was done and they may end up together. But do not think that there was no crossings of boundaries here.

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plaaplaaplaaplaa t1_j1d9kc1 wrote

Even though you think that boundaries were not crossed the story doesn’t say so. If they both feel like they need to talk about it then it is clear that some boundary was crossed.

Often it is easier to think about this when you reverse roles, most people have gender bias. So a woman woke up at morning having her co-worker in her bed cudling her and she doesn’t even remember inviting him to the bed. Does it now sound like boundary crossing for you?

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