You are 23 years old is this the man and life you want to live?

You are both on completely different pages. Time to move on.

What happens when he says yes you and me and thats it, you get married in a year or two and he brings it up again? Do you think it will make it easier to leave after marriage/ A baby?

You dont stay in a relationship with a person when you want 2 completely different lives.

Again, at 23 you should be with someone who wants you.

Advice? Leave the idiot now. He doesnt have 2 brain cells to rub together.

I think it is a great area.

Close to Asbury and Red Bank

Train to city is here,

Its safe

Is it like living in Hoboken nope

I would suggest a financial advisor for the 2 if you if I thought he wanted to understand, but I think he just wants to control the situation.

WHY are you still in this relationship?

And please dont tell me its because you love him.

There is nothing in this situation about YOU. Its all about HIM

Go now quickly

Or we will see you back here in 2 years saying "i just dont know what went wrong"

I would say North East in general. A very proud NE

Did you say your father or your BF?

Come on he is 37 and has never had a real job! This man is going nowhere fast do you want to carry him for the rest of your life?

His X is clever

Why are you having unsafe sex with anyone? Especially someone you suspect of cheating. You are playing russian roulette!!!

first off, since you never had a conversation about it i think you need to do so now.

you do understand that he doesnt have to go to a strip club to cheat, that can happen anyway anywhere. you either trust him or dont.

my husband has gone to a few over the years for bachelor parties, i do not have any issues with it because i trust him. if it isnt often or habit, no big deal for me. i am secure enough to realize this isnt what makes a man cheat.

not all women feel like this i understand that, but you have never discussed it so i think there needs to be some level of forgiveness here.

So, you'll stay lonely and miserable forever?

I wasnt necessarily talking about cheating. I was talking about leaving and finding happiness again.

Couples counseling?

Eventually you are going to seek it elsewhere

Fantastic area to raise kids. Tons to do, good schools, and love it here.

LOL

This just happened to me. I was in Delaware for a few days and decided i needed gas before i came home. I pulled up and thought to myself, shit, I'm going to have to pump my own, I hope I remember how. It was absolutely easy with no issues, but I will admit I hesitated.