sweetoldetc

sweetoldetc OP t1_j9t5ejs wrote

I think certain habits/tendencies solidified once we both really got breastfeeding down. He started to get both more efficient and more distracted at the breast during daytime feeds, so those sessions would go faster. But at night the breast would help him fall and stay asleep, so I would tend to let him stay on a bit longer in the hope that that would lead to more sleep overall for all of us.

And congrats on the fresh baby :)

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sweetoldetc OP t1_j9srlcs wrote

So, in the first few months I did pump once a night just to get some extra milk for freezing and so my husband could give him the occasional bottle. And then once I went back to work when my son was around 7.5 months I pumped more frequently, basically whenever my work schedule meant I couldn't accommodate my son's nursing rhythm.

But I think any nursing mother would tell you pumping is basically the worst of all feeding options. It is much more time intensive than nursing (need time to set up pump + actually pump, then time to feed baby, then time to clean pumping parts for the next time) but also still puts a lot of the primary feeding pressure on the person producing the milk (unlike with formula, where anyone can prepare baby's food and then give it to them). So I tried to avoid it as much as possible!

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