the_original_Retro
the_original_Retro t1_j9zwqeg wrote
Reply to LPT: If someone is talking loudly over speakerphone in public and you want them to shut up, join in on their conversation. by ConnieKai
LPT: If you want to get punched or slapped, do that.
Betting OP never actually did this themselves, they're just advising other people to do a /r/shittylifeprotips entry.
LPT: If you want a lower probability of getting punched or slapped, ask "Pardon me, would you mind taking that off of speakerphone?", or just walk away to a different place if that's possible.
the_original_Retro t1_j9zn8b5 wrote
Reply to comment by ExternalUserError in ELI5:Why does Costco restrict memberships to certain people? by MikeTorsson
Hope they sent you via bus to Florida and dropped you off outside the Governor's house there.
the_original_Retro t1_j9wmjxj wrote
If you consider "entertaining" as meaning 'I would appreciate if someone would punch them hard in the face right now', I'd agree.
the_original_Retro t1_j9msj9f wrote
Reply to comment by CanadianMcManager in LPT: Check in with your significant other’s if they seem to stop doing household chores by Smoky-Abyss
Nah, you're absolutely right. My mistake for not reading all the details. Original comment deleted.
the_original_Retro t1_j9hrfzi wrote
Be more flexible with your dream.
Sorry, fam.
Look for other things you are interested in. Space can be a super-fulfilling hobby as much as a career.
the_original_Retro t1_j9f1v1m wrote
Reply to comment by Paul-duggan in LPT Request: how to overcome Imposter Syndrome at work? How have you dealt with it? by ladladladz
This is the right answer.
I'm apparently a decent public speaker and meeting facilitator that has no difficulty getting up in front of crowds. It's a continuous surprise to me that others fear the hell out of it and it's probably one of the biggest phobias around.
So what I think is simple and routine and straightforward - looking around the room to include everyone, addressing people's inputs directly but firmly, interrupting off-topic or ranty meeting contributors so we can move on - is something that I've been told many times is a "skill" to have.
I don't even notice it. I just do it.
So I don't VALUE it, and its contribution.
And when I wonder "Am I actually worth what I'm being paid?", I don't properly factor it in, while others do.
the_original_Retro t1_j9dj3il wrote
Reply to [OC] job search and a lesson learned to be open minded and network with others by adm_shiza
I am really starting to hate these job-related graphs.
Ones like this are not "beautiful". They're sad, and I hope their OP finds success.
the_original_Retro t1_j9dfojq wrote
Reply to comment by MushroomLonely2784 in [homemade] Texas Chili by info-sponge
You kinda endorsed my point there.
We all have individual tastes, I love buckets of hot sauce, for example.
That doesn't mean it's appealing to most. I got served this in a restaurant, I'd say WTF and send it back.
It's just badly constructed.
the_original_Retro t1_j9d1ns6 wrote
Reply to comment by MushroomLonely2784 in [homemade] Texas Chili by info-sponge
OP said "Texas Chili". That means something. It doesn't mean "big chunks of raw onion".
I am nowhere near an accomplished chef, but I try and cook with balance, because I have a fussy family.
I would be picking these out of my own dish and not consider it a true 'chili' if these comparative onion-bergs were served to me.
the_original_Retro t1_j9d0rat wrote
Reply to comment by MushroomLonely2784 in [homemade] Texas Chili by info-sponge
Disagree all you want.
Raw onion to chili ratio is super far off, especially that size. There should be no raw "chunk" ingredients in a chili.
the_original_Retro t1_j9cxksr wrote
Reply to [homemade] Texas Chili by info-sponge
If those are raw onions, I'm sorry but I'm out.
That's going to seriously overpower the other flavours in my own experience.
This doesn't look like a balanced dish.
the_original_Retro t1_j86khtu wrote
Reply to comment by morkrets in Is there a Netflix for book? by morkrets
Explain.
Why are they "not that good"? What are they not delivering that you expect they should be delivering, or that's required for them to be "good"?
the_original_Retro t1_j86jrjj wrote
Reply to Is there a Netflix for book? by morkrets
CONSIDER PUBLIC LIBRARIES
the_original_Retro t1_j7iymy5 wrote
I'm a bit torn on this.
I don't want to see anyone end their life prematurely or unnecessarily.
Even if they are in a shit job.
Nearly lost one of my kids to suicide. Didn't.
Really don't want to entertain the thought process behind "what if I did".
Awful, to me, really. Sorry.
the_original_Retro t1_j6kziyv wrote
Reply to Fruit Charizard in supermarket by Anon293357
If they were allowed to include veggies it could have been a cherry chard.
the_original_Retro t1_j6kxye2 wrote
Reply to comment by Supremetacoleader in Pic my wife took of our almost 2-yr-old on her way to do the important job of hugging her grandpa by Klempenski
and huggin' grandpa too.
One a these day these boots are gonna walk a hug to you
the_original_Retro t1_j6kdxrb wrote
Reply to Andy Kaufman - 1970s by TheMegaSage
I personally think he never died but just morphed into Nicolas Cage.
the_original_Retro t1_j6ioh1q wrote
Reply to comment by besssjay in pls help, this is embarrassing ;_; by notyomamabear
On a re-read, you're probably correct here.
But it wasn't clear to me as it was phrased as a negative, not a "that book left a wonderful impression of its world with me and I was sad to see it end" sort of regret.
the_original_Retro t1_j6i8zg0 wrote
Reply to pls help, this is embarrassing ;_; by notyomamabear
Okay, so it would be helpful if you cited how old you actually are and some of the books you read that left you feeling "hollow" or "broken and incomplete", because that doesn't sound like a positive outcome of reading.
It CAN be. Some tragic books like Cormac McCarthy's "The Road" generate that feeling, but that was their intention. Perhaps readers feel grateful that they weren't in that world and exposed to that hellscape. But it's not 'enjoyable' so much as it is 'eye-opening'.
But either way, maybe ask for recommendations on something that "changes up" what you're reading so you'll feel something different than what you describe, because that honestly sounds like it sucks.
Maybe you could gain benefit from a hero to support that beats the odds, instead of a book set in a dank setting that makes humanity look awful. Or read a biography about someone actually overcoming adversity that you can cheer on rather than someone that gets crushed by their circumstances.
As an example, Andy Weir's "The Martian" is a colossally good read, with manageable levels of science and a central character that you can really look up to.
the_original_Retro t1_j6b94cw wrote
You mean "build a sandwich" joints, right?
Because only one fast food burger or chicken place that I've gone to and that I consider "fast food" seems to have this option. Harvey's... and they're silly expensive where I live compared to the others.
I could be living in a place where it's simply not a thing and in the submarine sandwich places it could be. IDK. Would like to hear others' opinions on this.
Maybe a LPT is: Buy your own salad-type fixin's, take your fast food home, and then add them for some nutrition there.
the_original_Retro t1_j6arqyu wrote
Reply to ELI5: How does a beer bottle top stop the gas in the bottle from escaping enough for it to remain fizzy for extremely long times? by trumps_baggy_gloves
Home brewer here. It's chemistry.
When they put the cap on the beer bottle, they'd already forced a lot of carbon dioxide (the gas that you breathe out) into the liquid in that bottle. They did it by placing the bottle's contents under pressure. And, under pressure, chemistry turned that carbon dioxide gas into a weak and unstable chemical called "carbonic acid" that easily breaks down under stress.
If you were to open the top, and hit the bottle a sharp knock with another bottle, WHAM. That's stress. And the carbonic acid starts to turn back into carbon dioxide REALLY FAST, and you get a foaming up mess.
But it can only do that because it's no longer under pressure. The carbon dioxide needs to go away somewhere so there's room for more to form.
That's why if you leave the cap on, and the carbon dioxide might want to come out, but it really can't... because there's no space where it can go.
As long as the bottle remains sealed, any carbon dioxide that wants to form just increases the pressure in the bottle's little air-bubble headspace, and that increase in pressure just re-dissolves the carbon dioxide back into the water part of the beer.
the_original_Retro t1_j5e49s5 wrote
Reply to comment by ApiContraption in PsBattle: Cockatoo and money by Emjmoor
They hopefully named the bird William.
That way it would be Bill with a bill in his bill.
the_original_Retro t1_j3l5suy wrote
Reply to 2012 Olympic male athletes’ weight [OC] by highcharts
Pro tip: the legend detracts from a good graph when it's simple and already labelled.
But interesting graph though. Here's how I'd break it down from my armchair.
- Rowing is about pure raw strength and medium-term endurance. Makes sense that it's the heaviest. The separate bulges are likely men vs women, with a light person being the one that doesn't row but calls the strokes.
- Taekwondo, I'm assuming, has competitive weight classes, explaining the distributions?
- Triathlon people are all wiry, stringy muscle and little body fat so they don't have to carry a lot of personal weight for the many miles/kilometers of the competition.
- Fencing's somewhere in the middle - some fitness, but strength is important.
the_original_Retro t1_j3l3all wrote
Consider reactive or proactive journals.
A proactive journal is when you make a physical list of the chores you're going to do today, such as on a whiteboard, and you check off each one as it's done. There's a little dopamine in drawing a line through or removing something you accomplished.
A reactive journal is when you have a diary or similar book next to your bed. Each night, you write out what you accomplished. Again, a little hit of dopamine for completing some.
I used the former until chores simply became a habit. Now I don''t consider them "work".
the_original_Retro t1_j9zzwwc wrote
Reply to comment by Drakoneous in LPT: If someone is talking loudly over speakerphone in public and you want them to shut up, join in on their conversation. by ConnieKai
yup. It absolutely could.