therealcosmicnebula
therealcosmicnebula t1_jed79b1 wrote
Reply to How do I [31F] tell my husband [38M] he needs to go to the dentist without hurting his feelings? by throwRA32452
Tell him directly and concisely.
"I need to tell you something. Your breath smells bad. I don't know what it is. But you need to see the dentist."
Don't do all the eggshell overly verbose, roundabout way.
It's more insulting when you do that.
therealcosmicnebula t1_jecf59l wrote
Dump her.
Never date someone who humiliates you to other people.
therealcosmicnebula t1_jac6vpd wrote
I think it should be discussed if other people know about it and it can be publicized at a later date.
therealcosmicnebula t1_j2fj2pd wrote
Reply to comment by ThrowRAaffair1 in [30F] [32M] I think my husband wants to have an affair by ThrowRAaffair1
>I did think about that, but we just had a baby.
🤦♀️
>If I knew for sure that he had cheated, I would start divorce proceedings immediately
Even if he hasn't. If that's his account, I'd consider trying to cheat a divorceable reason.
therealcosmicnebula t1_j2fg5ft wrote
>My husband has commented on a lot of pictures, asked women how long they are in our city for, and has mentioned that he is traveling to a different city and wants to meet up.
Oh yeah.
He's actively trying to cheat on you.
Id screen shot all the evidence (after confirming it's definitely his account).
And wrap it up in a pretty box with a pretty bow and gift him divorce papers along with the comment longs.
Then tell everyone in your life and his life exactly why you're divorcing him. And then move on with someone else.
You're 30. This is the last age to really blow up your relationship and still be able to fairly easily recover and find a new partner and marry and have kids before it's too late.
However if you stay, you'll end up in your late 30s and 40s 20 years out from retirement with kids by a man who likely never changed making it much harder to leave and land on your feet.
I'd consider this the universe giving you a gift.
therealcosmicnebula t1_jedcm2g wrote
Reply to I [M30] don't know how to tell my partner [M26] that I'm not the one out of the two of us with unhealthy eating habits by [deleted]
Tell him the truth.
Eating during a certain amount of hours is fine. As long as you are getting all your nutrients. But overeating is a problem no matter what.