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trishsf t1_j6oursr wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in My bf (25M) and i (f22) are barely having s*x and it is beacuse of me by [deleted]
Okay. Why are you crying? It’s hard if you can’t satisfy a partner because they are asking you not to. Have you talked to a therapist about this? If not, please do.
trishsf t1_j6og04v wrote
Reply to Not sure if I’m overthinking things or if he just wants me because of sex (28F) (30M) by ThrowRALauraa
Wow. He can’t do anything right. You wrongly suspect that he cheated which means you don’t trust him and now because he made an offhand humorous compliment, he only wants you for sex. Poor guy.
trishsf t1_j6offww wrote
Reply to comment by razzledazzle626 in I(19M) am kind of traumatized by the fact that my girlfriend(18F) liked being touched on the face by her crush before me. by Personal_Change_7949
This. And possibly seek help around your trust issues. Traumatized? That’s a big word that you are using when nothing happened and it was before you.
trishsf t1_j6ocebj wrote
Is the sex good? When it happens, are you completely satisfied?
trishsf t1_j6obnpc wrote
You say that you absolutely trust her but you don’t. Other people’s intentions don’t matter if you trust her. Someone in a committed relationship doesn’t regularly communicate with an ex with the intention of seeing them at some point.
trishsf t1_j6oaetd wrote
Reply to I (f30) want my boyfriend (m33) to make more money but he doesn’t want me to bring it up again by [deleted]
I was a personal trainer as a side gig because I loved it. Personal training is rarely a career that is going to support a family or even contribute much. If he’s really working towards having his own gym, he would have taken the job. He’s going to want you to fund his dream and most gyms fail. Be very careful.
trishsf t1_j6o9mhy wrote
Reply to Should I (30M) address this issue before my friend (30M) comes to visit or do I need to let it go and try to have fun? by [deleted]
I would be really sad that I didn’t trust my fiancé.
trishsf t1_j6o8r4t wrote
This isn’t working for me anymore. I have valued our time together but have realized that I need to figure out who I am outside of a relationship before actually starting one. Say that.
trishsf t1_j6o755d wrote
Reply to comment by Throwaway88888907 in My (30F) partner (32M) didn't discuss long travel plans with me by [deleted]
I agree if you’re both really invested in this relationship. I’m not trying to be unkind. I just think it shows that he may not be on the same page. Actions speak louder than words.
trishsf t1_j6o0cy0 wrote
Reply to comment by Throwaway88888907 in My (30F) partner (32M) didn't discuss long travel plans with me by [deleted]
What is? Because it sounds as if you don’t want him to go or that you believe that you should make this decision together. If he’s not including you in the decision then he’s clearly saying that he isn’t at the place where he believes that you make life decisions together.
trishsf t1_j6nwtng wrote
He’s making this decision knowing he’ll be away from you for 2 months. It’s not as if he isn’t aware of it. 4 months isn’t long and if this is a big opportunity for him, he should go. If your relationship is meant to be then 2 months is nothing.
trishsf t1_j6nul93 wrote
Reply to My [26F] boyfriend [26M] is liking girls half naked pics all the time by throwawaycausedamnit
How long have you been together? If you are a solid and established couple then it’s fair to say that you don’t like it and ask him to stop.
trishsf t1_j6ntvyp wrote
Reply to Boyfriend (M 28) earns less than me (F 26) and is not being honest about his finances. We have been together for over a year. by [deleted]
A year? That’s not enough for one person to survive.
trishsf t1_j6nm6r2 wrote
Reply to Dear people of reddit, I'm 25M interested in a coworker 24F who is a lesbian, how to convince her into being in a relationship with me? by [deleted]
Really?? You have the wrong equipment and everything else. Are you serious?
trishsf t1_j6nept3 wrote
Seriously? You don’t even like her. A lot of people are pretty and can cook. Plus. Stellar remark about her thriving career.
trishsf t1_j6ndob6 wrote
Reply to comment by Big-Anywhere-797 in I (31F) is trying to find her mom (55F) a partner. Is that too much? by Big-Anywhere-797
I know you are and that’s so loving and thoughtful. I hope she agrees to therapy because she’s got so many years ahead of her and I want her to be happy too.
trishsf t1_j6n6ngg wrote
I think we all have stuff and the sooner we address it, the better life is on every level. I would ask a therapist these questions. Maybe it’s what you witnessed growing up or it’s a defense mechanism. A therapist would help you figure out why and help you to change your behavior.
trishsf t1_j6n4lwv wrote
I’m a mom and close to her age. There’s nothing you can do. She would be helped immensely by therapy but only if she really wants to change her life and find happiness. This is heartbreaking because she’s too young to give up but it has to come from her. I’m so sorry.
trishsf t1_j6m0qxz wrote
I think it’s a terrible ultimatum. Awful. His reasoning was that he doesn’t want to move. It wasn’t that he loves you and that he’s planning to marry you. Think about that. I’m sorry
trishsf t1_j6ldwbb wrote
Don’t put it in debt for someone you haven’t seen in ages. Thank you so much for the invitation and I’ll be there in spirit. It’s not something I can swing right now. If she pushes back then she’s an entitled oblivious dick.
trishsf t1_j6jfit5 wrote
Woman here. At first I thought, I like to wear sexy underwear just because it feels good. But. If she’s not wearing it around you then she’s probably wearing it for someone else.
trishsf t1_j6ov14f wrote
Reply to comment by DeadlyJelly18 in I need advice about the way my (21m) GF (21f) is behaving with their ex('s) by [deleted]
It’s actually fair to ask a partner that you are in a committed relationship with not to speak regularly with an ex or make plans to get together.