Just so it’s clear as no one is mentioning it they won a contest, in which the reward was being able fo get married in an ALDI. Also they get free groceries for a year and some other random stuff for married people like household essentials.

As someone with OCD anytime I hear advice about behavior or thoughts I immediately think of how that advice would apply to OCD lol. I think it’s almost like a part of OCD. Realistically it is probably just talking about the conscious thoughts you intend to have and not the unconscious thoughts you randomly have. I have noticed a correlation though that advice that would negatively affect someone with OCD is normally just bad advice because everyone has unwanted thoughts and feeling.