I'll DM you later! I don't think she'd qualify for my program but I'm happy to recommend resources.

I work for the PATH program in Monmouth county with people in similar situations. Are her learning disabilities documented? Is she eligible for DDD? They have housing subsidies. I would also recommend she call Mercy Center in Asbury Park since they have a DV program with services and housing and it seems that she would qualify as fleeing. There's also a program called the Women's Hospitality Network in Monmouth county that will be starting in January that offers shelter.